The problem of premature ejaculation, one of the biggest nightmares of sexual life, can bring an end to the relations when it is cured. So what is premature ejaculation, what are the reasons? How to deal with the problem of premature ejaculation? Are retarding drugs effective in premature ejaculation? Is there a cure for premature ejaculation? Here are those who are curious about the problem of premature ejaculation from the Formsante archive (2010) .
Premature ejaculation ranks first among male sexual problems. Almost a third of men experience premature ejaculation. In the remaining two thirds, this problem can occur in a certain period of their lives. According to a study among 7 thousand men in the USA, 70 percent of men have problems with premature ejaculation. One fifth of these men stated that they had ejaculation in the first minute of the relationship and 62 percent stated that they had ejaculation in 1-5 minutes.
HOW TO LEAVE EARLY EMPTY? *
The problem of premature ejaculation is divided into two groups as premature ejaculation that continues throughout life. Lifelong premature ejaculation is a condition that has existed since the first relationship. It can show family characteristics. The family of 90 percent of these patients also has a story of premature ejaculation. In early ejaculation, there was no such problem before. Subsequent premature ejaculation can be caused by urinary tract infections, surgical interventions, or psychological problems.
WHAT IS EARLY EMPTY? *
Urology Specialist Dr. Bülent Alıcı explains the problems experienced in early ejaculation as follows. "The person empties before a certain time, cannot control his ejaculation and this creates negative effects on the person." The definition of premature ejaculation of the International Sexual Medicine Association (ISSM) is as follows:
Being nervous, anxious or disappointed in the person, not being able to delay ejaculation in almost all or all of the relationships, and ejaculation within the first minute of the relationship or before the relationship begins. ”
MAY NOT ALWAYS
When premature ejaculation is from time to time, this is not considered a problem. If more than half of the relationships are premature ejaculation or if this creates unhappiness in both men and women, it starts to be a problem. Professor Dr. Bülent Alıcı, “In men who are passively or actively criticized by women; Loss of self-esteem, tension, erectile dysfunction or lack of desire may develop. Likewise, in case the foreplay is kept short due to premature ejaculation, the woman may see a lack of desire or an orgasm. ” Feeling too overly responsible for women in terms of sexuality can lead to premature ejaculation by creating tension. The ejaculation can be controlled by increasing or decreasing the warning intermittently during the relationship. Since there may be a situation with the woman's approach, premature ejaculation is sometimes experienced and sometimes not.
ARE THE DRUGS PROVIDED FOR DELAY EFFECTIVE? *
Premature ejaculation affects men and women equally. Therefore, it is very important for men and women to apply to the physician at the beginning of the treatment, to be informed about the type and duration of the treatment to be followed, for the success and compliance of the treatment. Homework should be done together to control the discharge time. During these assignments, methods of pleasure during sexuality should be developed. In male-only treatment, the result may not be successful enough.
For example, drugs given to men for delay can be effective first, and when they stop taking the drug, the problem recurs. Also, since the woman does not know about the type of treatment, there may be difficulty in compliance and patience with the treatment. An effective treatment takes place when both men and women are treated together, and both medical and behavioral therapy are applied together.
WHAT HAPPENS IF THE EARLY EMPTY IS NOT TREATED? *
First of all, it can create tension, anxiety and disappointment. The result is situations that make the solution more difficult, such as getting away from sexuality or a decrease in hardening quality. For women, dissatisfaction in the relationship; it can lead to a decrease in sexual desire or even aversion to sex. There is
also a deterioration in social relations between men and women .
WHAT ARE THE TREATMENT METHODS?*
Professor Dr. Bülent Alıcı states that the most effective treatments are medical, local drug applications and behavioral therapies. Serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI) are used as medical treatment. By using the side effects of these drugs, ejaculation time can be extended. A new SSRI (dapoxetin) with short effects and few side effects can also be used.
Special creams and sprays applied to the penis or squeezed can also be effective as local drug applications. Behavioral therapy is another
form of treatment that can create an effective and permanent solution for controlling the feeling of ejaculation .
WHICH POSITION SHALL DELAY EARLY?*
The position during sexual intercourse is also very important. In some positions, ejaculation may not be delayed, for example, in the classic junction position above. In more comfortable positions, for example, your lower position, your partner's upper position can lead to delay in ejaculation. Another recommended method for premature ejaculation is that when the man approaches the moment of ejaculation, squeezing the tip of the penis between his two fingers and waiting for a while to relax.
While applying this method, deep breathing can be taken during the waiting period. If you want to prevent a timeless ejaculation, you can try to think about other things at that moment. For example, you can count numbers from within, and for a while, you can get away from sexual excitement with your thoughts. This is accepted as an effective method for ejaculation to be experienced at the right time.
MASTURBATION TRIGGER EARLY EMPTY?*
Too much masturbation can also trigger premature ejaculation. You may have problems in sexual intercourse, especially if you are masturbating from a young age. Because when you learn to satisfy yourself, the only goal is to be satisfied. When this becomes a habit, you can only think of ejaculation and ejaculate early during sexual intercourse.